Written by Coen de Groot
Coaching owes a lot to other professions, such as psychotherapy
and business consultancy. And there is still much more to
learn from other professions, including architecture. Whilst
architects design buildings, many coaches assist their clients
to design their life
So here we go, some lessons from architecture ...
One prominent thinker and architect is Christopher Alexander,
Professor of Architecture at the University of California
at Berkeley, and Director of the Center for Environmental
Structure. In his book "Notes on the synthesis of form",
Christopher looks at how things get created, especially at
how they get to be the way they are. He compares two different
types of processes, the unselfconscious and the selfconscious
A typical example of the unselfconscious process can be seen
in the design of an African mudhut. Like the design of an
African mudhut, in the unselfconscious process the design
comes from trial and error. Changes are made to the design
to correct existing problems, until there are no more problems.
This happens over many generations. And after that the design
remain stable. An external change, such as in the environment
or the weather, may create new problems. These will be solved
by a new series of changes until all problems have disappeared.
The result can be a very complex design which is ideally suited
to the environment and the needs of the inhabitants
With the unselfconscious process the design is passed down
through absorption, usually from parent to child, from master
to apprentice or through stories and myths. There are no conscious
design rules nor separate design professions. And partly because
of this there is no temptation to change the rules or to experiment
with them
When we start getting separate design activities and professions,
the designers (architects, graphic designers, industrial designers,
etc) start creating design rules that they can work from,
discuss with their colleagues and pass on. There is now a
need to attract trade, and one way a designer can do this
is by distinguishing themselves from their colleagues, for
instance by creating their own style. We now get change for
change sake
Any type of design, whether it is unselfconscious or selfconscious,
has one large problem and that is that solving one problem
can often create one, two or more new problems. The reason
is that a design (for instance a house or other object) has
to fulfil many different requirements. Or to put it differently,
there are many things that can go wrong when designing a house
(or anything else). There are many connections between the
different parts and aspects of any object, which makes it
very likely that solving problem thing creates a new problem.
With the unselfconscious design, given enough time, all problems
will be solved. For instance, the African mudhut is ideally
suited to its environment. However, the unselfconscious design
falls apart when the external world changes too quickly
With the conscious design the designer often starts from
scratch, or at least introduces a lot of changes to an existing
design. Because of the complexity of design, this will introduce
a lot of problems. And, as mentioned before, solving these
problems may cause new problems. To simplify the design, the
designer usually groups the requirements, for instance into
heating, storage, roof, plumbing, etc. However, the links
go across the groups. A decision about the plumbing may create
a problem in the storage. To get all of this right first time
is virtually impossible. And once the house is built and the
inhabitants start to discover the various problems it is often
too late
So neither approach is perfect. The unconscious process falls
apart when the external world changes too quickly, whilst
the conscious process simply cannot cope with the large number
of interlinked requirements involved in most design projects.
As Christopher Alexander puts it ".., just as it is a
property of the unselfconscious system's organization that
it produces well-fitting forms, so it is a property of the
emergent selfconscious system that its forms fit badly"
Christopher does describe an alternative in his book. However,
it is very complicated and not very suitable for coaches.
In later books he has refined his ideas and created new processes,
which you may read about in future articles
So, what are some of the implications for us coaches?
- Instead of asking our client to make big changes it may
be a lot safer and more effective to start by trying a series
of small changes
- Before making a large change don't just ask your client
for the conscious, logical point of view. Consciously your
client may not be aware of all the possibly side-effects
(links) of the proposed change. And the question 'how will
this effect your life' may be too complex for the conscious
mind. So also ask questions like "What is your gut
telling you about this" and "As you imagine taking
this change into the future, how does it feel and what does
that tell you"
- Learn from what others are doing. Your clients' lives
are too short to make all of their own mistakes. That is
one of the big functions of parenting and of society - to
pass on all the learnings of the previous generations. Before
taking a different path from everyone else first check out
all the benefits of the 'conventional' path. Don't throw
out the baby with the bathwater
- As much as possible, build on what is already there. Concentrate
on the problem at hand instead of making changes for change
sake
- As a 'design professional' beware of creating processes
and ideas for their own sake, even if you feel it is important
to distinguish yourself from your colleagues
- Learn from the art of design, such as graphic design,
industrial design and architecture
- Some coaches come from the "unselfconscious"
school, having learned through many years of personal life
experience, whilst others come from the 'selfconscious'
school, having gone through formal training. Both approaches
are valid
I recently had a coachings session with a client who was
considering some large and interconnected changes. He found
this rather difficult and scary. Briefly explaining some of
the ideas above got him to focus on looking for small changes
which would gradually improve his life. Knowing that he could
always turn things back removed the fear and released his
energy
© Coen de Groot - 2005
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